The Breakdown is The New Beauty Now

I feel this needs to be normalized - for Men & Women 💫

Something that I feel is not talked about enough is what I have found in my life as ‘The hidden key’ - i.e. The Breakdown 

Since my awakening in 2013 - something drastically shifted inside of me - one from holding all of my emotions in and suffering to softening/melting every chance I could and blossoming. 🌸

Melting = crying, feeling, radically breaking down...

I realized throughout my years of healing that the allowing of the ‘Breakdown’ was my hidden key to get to my next levels of growth, expansion, heart opening, success & abundance ( in every way ) and fully embodying into the character of love. 

Something I adore that Damien Wayne discusses is how getting to your next level means ‘going deeper INTO your cells, not outside of yourself but deeper into the body’ for the next level.

Along this journey I have witnessed many men and many women go through this same transition - one from being rigid and scared which ultimately kept them in a perpetual cycle of suffering into allowing themselves to break and watch themselves bloom after.

I personally never understood as a child

why as humans we felt the need to hide our emotions

But, as I continued to suffer in my own life I realized it was because I wasn’t ‘taught’ and most of this world is not taught that FELLING is actually normal 

Men go through these massive amounts of programming to be ‘taking care of the family, making the money, being the ones to hold it all together while showing no emotion about it’ 

Women go through these massive amounts of programming to be ‘taking care of the family, also having to support everyone emotionally and even financially while being the ones to hold it all together’ 

See how there is no difference above? 🧐

Because, we are ALL human. 

Whether you are a man or a woman 

We are all taught that we need to be ‘strong enough’ to do it all?

But, the reality is

We are all the same

We are all human

Having a human experience

And,

trying to all do our best in that.

Is it easy? 

NO!

Do we talk about this enough?

Nope.

Well, today I think it’s important to highlight just how

NORMAL 

IT IS.

To BREAKDOWN.

In my experience:

Watching a man melt and open is like watching every man in this world grow massive balls. (sorry if that was too graphic haha)

but,

Witnessing a man own his feelings and even say ‘i am having a hard time with this, I need support, I am feeling this....’ is the most healing experience for a woman ( I can only speak for me)

....It’s sexy, it’s real, it’s raw....

BUT,

you know what else it is?

It’s a moment - an opportunity for mean nd women or men and men to be able to show up and heal together - wounds that are so old and outdated in the family bloodline.

It is a moment that proves there is still so much potential in this world.... it’s hot 🔥 honestly, it just is...

And,

watching a woman melt and open is - o god.... probably one of the sexiest things also for myself -

watching a woman also change ancestral patterns and say ‘ I can’t do this alone, I need help, I am tired, I want to cry, I need to feel…I surrender’ is the most powerful thing I feel a woman can do.

Women have been suppressed for so many generations that to watch a woman finally own the entirety of her self without fear of being called ‘crazy’ is just SEXYYY 🔥

FEELING is sexy -

it’s hot - it’s real - it’s raw - it’s brilliant

Why?

Because, 

after you feel it

You heal it.

And, 

Healing is the new Beauty. 💞